From a conversation on irc...
To me all of the below are in some way the same sort of thing, although I didn't see it that way until Richard pointed it out a year or so back. It made me feel a lot less bitter at people who I don't see as overweight who still want to be thinner. I instinctively still find the cosmetic surgery more distasteful than most of the rest, and wonder if others feel the same.
NB More what you find acceptable in others than what you would consider doing yourself.
[Poll #369403]
To me all of the below are in some way the same sort of thing, although I didn't see it that way until Richard pointed it out a year or so back. It made me feel a lot less bitter at people who I don't see as overweight who still want to be thinner. I instinctively still find the cosmetic surgery more distasteful than most of the rest, and wonder if others feel the same.
NB More what you find acceptable in others than what you would consider doing yourself.
[Poll #369403]
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Date: 2004-10-19 10:52 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-10-20 08:56 am (UTC)I suppose that's a sort of sideways angle on the question -- is it "acceptable" for people to present themselves in a way that other people (may) find repellent? I'd be very, very wary of saying that any of the above body-mods were "unacceptable" just because I personally found them repellent; I mean, there's a slippery slope there which ends in ludicrous things like "should fat people be allowed to wear bikinis?" and "should total mingers be allowed out in public without paper bags over their head?"
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Date: 2004-10-20 09:34 am (UTC)