7: The Horse and his Boy: C. S. Lewis: ISBN 0-261-167048-4

[lnr]

Book three in the Narnia chronicles mostly takes place outside Narnia. Again it's rather a good one, with some nice world-building in terms of the vaguely Eastern land of Calormen. Though illustrating the darker Calormen as cruel and owning slaves seems a little racist in modern eyes. Long-lost twins is always a bit of a cliche as plots go, but never mind, they're both nice lads. And Aravis is nice too. I love her bit hiding behing the sofa listening to the plotting of Prince Radabash. And I'm mildly amused by the line near the very end: "Aravis also had many quarrels (and, I'm afraid, even fights) with Cor, but they always made it up again: so that years later, when they were grown up, they were so used to quarrelling, and making it up again that they got married so as to go on doing it more conveniently." What a sad view on marriage! Obviously Richard and I should never bother, since we still haven't seemed to get the hang of falling our very much ;-) Anyway another book read quickly and with nostalgia and enjoyment, and looking forward to the rest.

Comments

[ailbhe]

It's a pretty good view on marriage, I always thought - no myth that it's supposed to be all sweetness and light. And now that I've grown up and got married myself, I observe that Rob and I are the only couple we know who never quarrel. I have no idea how we'd make up if we did. It's a scary thought.

[mtbc100.livejournal.com]

FWIW Dawn and I don't fall out very much either, despite marriage. (-: Is indeed a nice line, though.

[catyak]

My sister said Dave and I are the only married couple never to yell at one another when visiting her house.

How's your little one doing?

--Susan

[damerell.livejournal.com]

It's the only one where the preaching isn't a constant torrent, and it's the only one I can read and enjoy these days.

Gah. I remember enjoying the Narnia books as a child before I realised what was going on. It's very frustrating.

[lnr]

Oddly I'm finding them less irritating this time through than last, which is nice. Perhaps because the preaching is more expected :-)

[teleute.livejournal.com]

whereas I reread them in view of my taking a 4 year theology course and I *still* miss the preaching. Clearly I've heard so much now that I don't even notice it ;). Well, ok, some of the stuff Aslan says is a *bit* Christiany, but not much more than general stuff around here...

[vyvyan.livejournal.com]

G and I quarrel quite a bit, but mostly when drunk, and we always make up soon afterwards. I think our quarrels are constructive: we don't end up arguing about the same things over and over again; rather, we work through issues over time. Also, I think we argue less now than we did before we got married.

I think my least successful long-term relationship was the one than involved no quarrels at all - because it also involved very little communication of any sort.

[rmc28]

I think it depends if the quarrel-and-make-up sequence achieves something, rather than going over the same things again and again. I used to point at my parents' arguments as an example of constructive quarrelling, however that stopped being true some years ago as (I now realise) their marriage started breaking down. Now they're divorced, they hardly argue at all ...

Bad arguments are very unpleasant, but I rather feel the book is referring to the 'good argument' type - more a firm and frank exchange of views. As it happens, Tony and I haven't quite managed to fall out very much yet, but we do have plenty of time to practice ;)

[hoiho.livejournal.com]

I rather feel the book is referring to the 'good argument' type

I imagine that's why he used the softer word quarrel, rather than argue. To me, anyway, quarrel seems to carry an implication of good nature, where argue suggests more overt hostility. But maybe that's just me.

[simont]

I think it must be; to me, "quarrel" suggests an event capable of puncturing a plate-mail breastplate at a thousand paces, so any good nature is fairly well hidden.

But maybe that's just me ;-)

(ObCarStereo!)

[damerell.livejournal.com]

I'd bolt if something like that happened, rather than stick around to prod buttock.