Silly

[lnr]

Feeling calmer and brighter now (that sounds like a weather report).

The question is should I feel like a fool for posting a big wibble, given I'm apparently fine only a short while later, or should I be convinced that actually if I hadn't posted it I probably wouldn't be feeling better. Virtual hugs and marshmallows from Jan are a large part of it. Another part is just the release of having gone "AAAARRRRGHHHH!!!!". On balance perhaps I should just not think about it too much and just hang on to feeling OK.

Time to find some lunch.

Comments

[j4.livejournal.com]

Feeling better now doesn't mean you weren't upset before, and being upset doesn't mean you can't be happy later. If you post what you feel at the time, that doesn't mean it wasn't valid just because you don't feel that now. If you see what I mean.

I'm glad you're feeling better anyway, whether it was the wibble or the hugs or nothing-in-particular that made you feel better.

And we should meet up for real marshmallows (or metaphorical ones) more often.

*hugs*

[bopeepsheep.livejournal.com]

IME just writing the wibble helps loads, even if it is then deleted. Letting off steam is good. Feeling better however soon afterwards is particularly good. Hugs and marshmallows are excellent. (Mmmm, marshmallows...) So, feel good that you let it out of your system, feel better, and I hope lunch was good. I'm still hungry here (PIL are staying, and I don't want to complain but their idea of lunch was very small!!)...

[ottah.livejournal.com]

Feeling calmer and brighter now (that sounds like a weather report)

"today, the lnr system is progressively calmer and brighter and looking to the rest of the week, we hope for outbreaks of sunshine"

*hugs*

[lnr]

Storms last night, and still a bit unsettled, but yeah, I can hope for sunshine.

[http://users.livejournal.com/_lois_/]

No you shouldn't feel like a fool for posting a big wibble, sometimes writing these things down is enough to clear your head and be able to get on with things and feel better. I often find that once I start to get mopey, the fact that I'm feeling mopey plays on my mind, thus making me more mopey, if you can understand what I'm saying. Over analysing things is very dangerous IMO, you begin to lose track of what you actually think and feel. Sometimes you just need to go with how you are feeling, rather than analysing why.

*hugs*