A slight case of overblogging

I've done a lot of the 'hanging around an ex I'm still deeply fond of' thing, and I honestly think that finding other stuff to enjoy is a very good idea; it helps you keep your sense of perspective, which is vital. Nobody said you have to take this new thing deeply seriously; stay within your comfort zone, keep your options open if you need to, but give yourself a break and have something that's straightforward and enjoyable. You don't have to be miserable.