Personally, I think it counts as adultery if you are supposed to be in a monogamos relationship and your SO has not agreed to a change of the rules, or if you are doing it in secret because SO would not approve (whether that is as part of a poly- or monogamos relationship). I also don't think it matters whether your married or not, as long as everyone knows as much as they want/need to know. Does that make sence?
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Date: 2004-04-30 01:36 am (UTC)Personally, I think it counts as adultery if you are supposed to be in a monogamos relationship and your SO has not agreed to a change of the rules, or if you are doing it in secret because SO would not approve (whether that is as part of a poly- or monogamos relationship). I also don't think it matters whether your married or not, as long as everyone knows as much as they want/need to know. Does that make sence?