You intimate that life wasn't "fair" before, but were you prepared to deal with it and leave it as it was? No. At least you had a choice in that there were *some* venues you could go to to socialise in the way you wanted to, and the "middle ground" proposal would at least have tried to cater for everyone in some way. It strikes me that some people are only too happy to accept these things as long as it is in their favour, and everyone else can go hang. No thought of compromise appears to have entered your head at all - it's all or nothing.
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You intimate that life wasn't "fair" before, but were you prepared to deal with it and leave it as it was? No. At least you had a choice in that there were *some* venues you could go to to socialise in the way you wanted to, and the "middle ground" proposal would at least have tried to cater for everyone in some way. It strikes me that some people are only too happy to accept these things as long as it is in their favour, and everyone else can go hang. No thought of compromise appears to have entered your head at all - it's all or nothing.