Is there anything I can do to help make things less awkward between us? Anything it'd be easier if I did/didn't do/say/mention/avoid/etc.?
coming to terms with the fact that things are *over*, and the implication that I should just deal OK
People who say you should "just deal OK" are asking for a smack in the mouth. Anybody who's ever lost something they valued will know it's not that easy.
half of them occurred to me while I was writing this and that ought to have made me feel better right?
Hrm. There's no "ought" about it, IMHO: writing lists of nice fluffy things doesn't magically make the bad things go away. (I only wish it did!) Sometimes it helps, yeah, but if it doesn't then it doesn't. And it's not surprising that the bad things are weighing on you.
If there's anything I can do to help with any of the bad things, do let me know. I do still care about you lots and lots and I just wish there was something I could do to make you happier.
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Is there anything I can do to help make things less awkward between us? Anything it'd be easier if I did/didn't do/say/mention/avoid/etc.?
coming to terms with the fact that things are *over*, and the implication that I should just deal OK
People who say you should "just deal OK" are asking for a smack in the mouth. Anybody who's ever lost something they valued will know it's not that easy.
half of them occurred to me while I was writing this and that ought to have made me feel better right?
Hrm. There's no "ought" about it, IMHO: writing lists of nice fluffy things doesn't magically make the bad things go away. (I only wish it did!) Sometimes it helps, yeah, but if it doesn't then it doesn't. And it's not surprising that the bad things are weighing on you.
If there's anything I can do to help with any of the bad things, do let me know. I do still care about you lots and lots and I just wish there was something I could do to make you happier.
*hugs*