What a lovely day

[lnr]

I like weddings. I think I especially like weddings with lots of friends around to talk to. Especially when they're all being dressed up. Col probably just wins best-dressed geek due to actually having real cufflinks. Andrew W probably next most dapper, but lots and lots and lots of honourable mentions and they're all so damned cute
Learning not to be so wistful about Simon, and at least I can tease him a bit. Also trying to learn to let Richard have a bit more freedom. It seems only fair, and if it makes him happy...
So long as he keeps being reassuring about how much he cares I think I'll be fine. Although I do worry that it's just that he fancies other people more than he does me, which isn't a great feeling, but he's doing pretty well at convincing me otherwise ;-)

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Talking tends to be good :)

My problem tends to be that I can often jump into stuff head first when I decide to do something. i.e. if I decide to do something then I'll do it pretty quickly.

However it may take me a long while to come to that decision.

However this can scare people at times so I have to learn to keep my impluses in check to avoid scaring people too much.

As for ground rules; E-J and I work on the "snog anyone you like, but more needs permission" principle, with the proviso that we tell each other who we've snogged. As to how far we each go with another person is talked about; we can both veto the other's choices if we feel uncomfortable, etc; although to be honest its more likely that E-J will veto me on account of my previous bad record of partner choice (which is thankfully improving). The only other hard rule is that nothing happens in our bed (or room for that matter); that is a space which is just for E-J and myself.

As for setting ground rules yourself if you don't know how much you'll be comfortable with... that is a hard problem and unfortunately its something that can only be worked out by experience and then discussions post-events.

Hmmmm - on reading the above I'm not sure if it makes much sense :(